7 signs of a bad babysitter

Antara dilema ibu2 sekarang ialah mencari babysitter yg bagus, nursery mana yang elok, maid lagi lah xpayah cita. Saya ada pengalaman hantar anak ke rumah babysitter dan juga mengambil maid untuk jaga anak2 bila saya bekerja. Alhamdulillah, dengan doa2 yg tak putus2, saya tidak ada sebarang masalah2 besar dengan babysitter saya dan jugak2 maid2 yg pernah saya amik. 

Saya suka nak share sket dgn karenah maid nih. Yela, diaorang ni mcm2 karenah, masalah, tapi bagi saya as long as diaorg dpt jaga anak saya dgn baik, anak2 saya suka dgn maid, maka perkara2 yg lain mcm tak buat kerja rumah betul2 ke, malas nak cuci longkang ke, saya pejam sebelah mata ja. saya pernah tengking maid saya sbb dia tinggalkan anak2 saya di rumah, dan dia keluar ke masjid sbb nak baya zakat fitrah...adeeihhh... walaupn masjid tu dekat aje ngan rumah saya, tapi anything can happen in 1 second. niat dia mmg baik, xnak nyusahkan saya, tapi, cara dia tu tak kena. lepas dari itu, alhamdulillah, tiada lagi peristiwa2 yg menggoncang jiwa saya. ada la 2-3 perkara kecik sahaja yg saya kira, saya dah maafkan dia. kena give and take jgk laa..

Ohh sekarang saya tak perlu pening2 cari maid lagi, citer pasal maid lagi sbb saya bekerja dari rumah sekarang nih. anak2 semua di depan mata saya... alhamdulillahh :)

ok, berbalik pada kisah 7 signs of a bad babysitter. Jom kita check samada benda2 ni pernah/sedang terjadi pada kita. Mintak2la dijauhkan..


Your baby isn't happy to see the sitter and has become anxious and withdrawn. A regular caregiver can never replace Mom or Dad, but a baby needs to trust and love his babysitter. Perhaps your child and caregiver haven't bonded, or the babysitter just isn't providing the kind of warmth and comfort your child needs. As in every human relationship, having the right chemistry is important. (If you suspect something more serious is wrong, educate yourself about the signs of child abuse.)

Your babysitter seems secretive about how they spent the day. How your baby and his caregiver spend their time shouldn't be a secret. When you come home, you're probably eager to hear about your child and what happened while you were apart. If your caregiver isn't forthcoming about it, either she's not good at communicating with you or she has something to hide. Even a caregiver whose English is limited should be able to convey the ups and downs of your baby's day, and will understand why you want to know.

Your baby has been in one too many easily avoidable accidents. A babysitter must keep her eye on your child and know what he's doing at all times to prevent injury. She may be leaving your child unattended as he sleeps or plays.

You notice your requests aren't followed. Both of you are working together to care for your child, so a caregiver shouldn't act as if she knows more about him and childrearing than you do.

Your babysitter often shows up late. An undependable caregiver will leave you in the lurch time and time again. Find someone who you know is committed to the job and considerate of your needs. Tardiness and unexplained absences may mean she's unreliable in other ways as well.

Your baby often looks unkempt and dirty. If your little one's caregiver can't take care of the basics, it may be a sign that she's not on the ball when it comes to meeting your child's needs.

Her stories don't add up. Never tolerate someone who steals, lies, or deceives you in any way. You have to be able to trust your caregiver for the relationship to work.


taken from www.babycenter.com

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